Coming out as non-binary - a few quick notes
I have written a very long post about examining my feelings at a deep and focused level that I haven't ever done so before.
This is not that post.
But, I am coming out as femme non-binary - (femme, only because that is the shape my body has chosen to be, I may drop this description as I go on.) Mentally, I don't feel any connection towards my female gender and do not have any wish to transition to male. I don't feel genderless either, so non-binary seems to fit well enough after a lot of self-reflection and ruminating about the past.
My pronouns are they/them, but she/her does not bother me as the pronouns have never really had meaning to me, they are just words, like a social convention, but as I think about it they/them FEELS RIGHT. Online from now on, I would like to be called 'Day' as it is a slightly changed abbreviation of my legal name already, plus it feels positive from my strange synesthetic perspective too.
This is it - clicks publish.